Hey ...It's almost mid Jan 2011. Yesterday's date was a significant number - 1.1.11. I believed a lot of couples or lovers would have tied the eternal knot, put a (suffer) ring on each others' fingers and kaboom....there starts a life long journey of HOT and COLD. Be careful of which you turn on.
I was there. My husband then and I divorced over religious differences. He thought he was God, and I didn't! To me, marriage is a gamble, has no guarantees . What I had pictured and envisioned before the vows were exchanged was a bed of sweet smelling roses until I realized that the roses were plastic. By the way I prefer my purple roses to red ones.....
I can't picture myself in a marriage again unless my partner can be consistently consistent. I can't take HOT and COLD with unpredictable emotions. It has to be warm but I will settle for lukewarm to cold. I am not asking for the mountains but for that potential "Mr Hub" to have that smile which is like daybreak over the mountains.
On a serious note, marriage is the most valuable asset. It is a place for love, children, success and happiness: a pearl of great price. I am still a strong supporter of marriage. For a person full of love and passion to give, I am not shy and ashamed to say that I make a damn good wife, partner and mother. But you need two hands to clap and make that perfect crispy clapping sound right?
I strongly believe that an important key element to any happy marriage is good sex life . Physical intimacy in any marriage just adds energy to your married life. In fact, its like revving up the energy to do the things that married life is about. At least that's the effect on me. Because after a night full of good, energetic, emotional and very hot love making session, I feel better about myself. I feel a damn sight more receptive to his requests, desires and wants and I feel more desire to do the things that will make him happy. It's all about feeling being wanted. Even after being a mother, the desire heightens. Sadly, I generally see that sex is only HOT in the courtship and early stage of a relationship and after that it is just a monthly routine!
Another good thing to remember is taking care of each others' basic needs. It will do wonders for both partners' attitude and behavior in your marriage.Good positive attitude coupled with positive mood works! Great communication is good to inculcate. I used to date someone whom I can talk to about anything and no reservation needed. I can make stupid jokes, share my comments and laugh over small silly things. It 's all about being open-minded and the readiness to set and agree on expectations. However, it is important to understand the sensitivity nature of your partner if you want to be critical. in someways. I know humans are not perfect but at least to live life to the fullest, adopt that happy positive attitude.
Until that HOT, cute, tall, beefy, funny yet mysterious sharp nose driver in shining 20 inch rim wheels' come proposing to me, I will keep on praying for good things to evolve around that person whom I would want to be "In Love With" eternally....till now my readers, I'm Unfaithfully Yours...
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